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"Rene,
I have heard many fantastic speakers including Les Brown, Brian
Tracy, Tom Hopkins, Zig Ziglar, and Jim Rohn. They have helped
me in
many ways, however I have never been so deeply moved as I was
during your presentation. It was the most productive
thirty minutes I have ever Spent."
—Jeffrey B. Reed, Branch Sales Supervisor,
CharlesSchwab
Inspirational
speaker Vs. Motivational speaker
When I
mention to others that I am a motivational keynote speaker, the most common reply is, “Motivate
me.” My response usually is, “Today’s my day
off.” I joke about it because contrary to what most people
think, we should not aim for motivation. Rather, we should aim
for inspiration.
Most of
my inspirational motivational speaker friends would agree with
me that motivation is nothing but a fleeting experience. It is
like a caffeine boost. It only lasts for a moment. I am sure my
words motivate others. I have heard that many times, but my ultimate
goal is to provide lasting inspiration to my audiences. I believe
that once you are inspired, lasting motivation will follow.
You see,
lasting motivation comes from within; it’s the internal
flame that sets you afire. If you can’t wake up in the morning
and pep yourself up, you are in big trouble. The best way to remain
internally motivated is to look for sources of inspiration. I
will tell you how to do that later.
On the
other hand, there is external motivation. External motivation
is a lot like taking drugs. You can easily become addicted, and
whatever motivates you had better be there all the time. Once
the person or thing that motivated you is no longer present, you
go right back to where you started. It’s a short-term feeling.
Here is
a classic example: I had a boss who was power hungry. He wanted
to rule with an iron fist. I am sure he had good intentions. He
wanted to shine, but he used the wrong approach to motivate us.
We did what he wanted us to do, but only when he was around. Had
my boss possessed the gift of leadership, he would have found
a way to inspire us. That’s exactly why an inspirational
motivational speaker should aim to inspire instead of pure motivation.
Once inspired,
we would be motivated to do an excellent job and to make your
boss shine even when no one was watching. (By the way, if you
are in a leadership position, here is how you can inspire others:
create heartwarming stories. Do something remarkable for a couple
of employees at the bottom. You will create inspirational stories
that last forever.)
A second
example comes to mind. Suppose you went to a multilevel marketing
meeting. Right after the meeting you got very excited and pumped
up. You signed up on the spot. However, unless you were truly
inspired, two days later, you ended up with a nice kit and no
desire to go into the business.
Does that
mean multilevel marketing was a gimmick? No. It means you were
motivated, not inspired. In fact, multilevel marketing is one
of the best, low-cost and no-cost ways to become a millionaire
in America. But you have to give it all you’ve got. You
have to be inspired and refuse to let negative people rain on
your parade.
Let’s
face it, inspiration can last a lifetime. Do you remember a time
when you were inspired either by a teacher, a friend, or a parent?
Was it a movie, an autobiography, or a warm story? Years later,
you are still inspired by that event. Right? I believe that once
you are inspired, you will find the wherewithal to move and take
action.
The next
time you find yourself caught up in the moment, ask yourself whether
you are bein inspired or motivated. There is a huge difference
between the two. If you are waiting for external motivation to
get you going day in and day out, you will always live a life
of disappointment. If you are going to start something phenomenal,
find the inspiration to wake up in the morning fired up and ready
to go.
Here
is how you can motivate yourself instead of waiting
for an motivational speaker:
1.
Read autobiographies of people who have accomplished
amazing things in spite of overwhelming odds.
2. Listen
to exciting speeches and sermons.
3. Draw
upon the amazing stories of your parents, friends, and acquaintances.
Let them inspire you.
4. Finally,
draw upon the stories of successful people who have proven they
can brave the storms. Ask them to share their stories with you.
They’d love to do so if asked; and you will demonstrate
to them that you are interested in the process—in what
made them successful.
5. Read
book inspirational books. It’s amazing how many people
who are trying to achieve a goal without a point of reference
or a map. That is what the books will do for you. Trust me on
that. Books gave me the answers I needed to transform my life.
I went
from being a poor immigrant with no skills in America to being
a sought-after inspirational motivational speaker. Oops! I should
drop the word motivational and just consider myself an inspirational
speaker.
Anyway,
It all boils down to this: you’ve got to believe! When you
are inspired by a story, there is something on the inside of you
that causes you to believe. It’s like having a little voice
inside your head saying, “If Rene can do it in spite of
the challenges he has faced, I believe I can too.” Do you
see my point?
Somewhere,
deep down inside, people who are inspired tend to have a stronger
belief system in spite of the doubters around them. The next time
you realize that there is no fire inside your belly to ignite
your passion, look for inspiration.
Read autobiographies. Listen to great speeches and sermons. Ask
successful people who have had great comebacks to share their
stories with you, or to even mentor you. One day, your story will
be inspiring, too!
So next
time your are listening to a motivational
inspirational speaker and keynote speaker, ask yourself this, "Am I
being inspired or motivated?" If your speaker is an affirmation-shouting-pump-me-up-speaker,
it won't be long before you will find yourself exactly in the
same mental condition you were before.
(This
is an excerpt from the Award-winning book No Condition is Permanent
by Rene Godefroy) Click here to order your copy The Book
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